99 Flirty Sext Messages That Men Crave and Secretly Hope You’ll Send

Sometimes, it’s not about what you say — it’s about how you say it. A few playful words can make him think about you all day and smile at his phone like he’s got a secret.

Flirty messages aren’t just about being bold. They’re about connection, teasing, and reminding him how much you still spark his desire.

Here are 99 flirty sext messages that men crave and secretly hope you’ll send — sweet, fun, and just daring enough to keep him wanting more.

99 Flirty Sext Messages That Men Crave and Secretly Hope You’ll Send

1. I can’t stop thinking about how good you look.
2. You have no idea what you do to me.
3. I still remember how you kissed me last time.
4. If you were here right now, I wouldn’t let you go.
5. I miss the way you whisper in my ear.
6. I’ve been daydreaming about you all day.
7. I wish you could see what I’m wearing right now.
8. You make me blush just by thinking of you.
9. I love how you always know what I need.
10. I can’t sleep because my mind keeps going back to you.
11. You’re my favorite distraction.
12. I want to feel your hands on me again.
13. You always make me want more.
14. I’m in bed, and it feels empty without you.
15. You have no idea how much I crave your touch.
16. Just one look from you and I melt.
17. You make it impossible to focus on anything else.
18. I love when you tell me what you want.
19. Every time my phone buzzes, I hope it’s you.
20. You’re my favorite thought every night.
21. I still feel your lips on my skin.
22. I can’t get enough of the way you make me feel.
23. You ruin my ability to think straight.
24. I’m not saying I miss you, but my body does.
25. You have the kind of smile that gets me in trouble.
26. I wish you could see the way I look at you.
27. I love how your voice sounds when you get serious.
28. You don’t even try, and you still drive me crazy.
29. I’m counting the minutes until I can see you again.
30. You’re my favorite kind of distraction.
31. I can’t decide what I miss more — your lips or your hands.
32. I still replay our last night together in my head.
33. You have no idea how tempting you are.
34. You’re the reason I smile for no reason.
35. If you only knew what I’m thinking right now.
36. Every song reminds me of you.
37. You’re dangerous — in the best way.
38. You have no idea what your texts do to me.
39. I can’t believe how good you make me feel.
40. I wish you could hear my heartbeat when you text me.
41. You’re the kind of trouble I like.
42. You make me feel things I can’t explain.
43. I can’t stop imagining your hands on me.
44. You make me feel alive in ways I forgot I could.
45. My favorite place is anywhere near you.
46. I love how you take control.
47. You make me nervous in the best way.
48. Every time you call me, my heart skips a beat.
49. You always know how to make me smile.
50. I love when you tell me what you’re thinking.
51. I’m still thinking about what you said last night.
52. You’re my favorite escape.
53. I can’t believe how much I want you right now.
54. I want to hear you say my name again.
55. You’re too good at making me lose focus.
56. I love when you send me that look.
57. You have no idea how much I need you right now.
58. You always know how to get my attention.
59. I can’t stop replaying that moment in my mind.
60. You make me forget everything else.
61. You’re always on my mind — and in my dreams.
62. I love the way you look at me like that.
63. You don’t even try, and I’m already yours.
64. I’m thinking about you in all the wrong ways.
65. You make me feel like the only one.
66. I love how confident you are.
67. You’re my favorite reason to stay up late.
68. I want to hear your voice right now.
69. You’re the only person who makes me feel like this.
70. I can’t stop smiling when I think about you.
71. I wish I could be in your arms right now.
72. You’re the reason my heart races for no reason.
73. I’m not sure if I want to kiss you or tease you first.
74. I love how you always make me laugh before you make me blush.
75. You make me want to skip sleep tonight.
76. I want to see that look in your eyes again.
77. You have no idea how much I want to be near you.
78. You’re my favorite kind of temptation.
79. I can’t stop thinking about the last time we were together.
80. You make me forget what I was supposed to say.
81. I love when you call me out of nowhere.
82. You have no idea how much you affect me.
83. I can’t decide if I miss your voice or your hands more.
84. You make ordinary moments feel exciting.
85. You’re the first thought I have every morning.
86. You make me feel beautiful just by looking at me.
87. I can’t wait to see you again.
88. You have the kind of energy that pulls me in.
89. I love the way you make me feel wanted.
90. You’re still on my mind, and it’s not going away.
91. I can’t believe how strong our chemistry is.
92. You always know how to make things interesting.
93. I’m thinking about what I’d do if you were here right now.
94. You’re the one person who always gets to me.
95. I want to feel your arms around me again.
96. You’re my favorite kind of memory.
97. I can’t stop thinking about how you taste.
98. You make me feel like I’m the only one in the world.
99. You have no idea how much I’ve missed you today.

Flirty messages don’t have to be perfect — they just need to sound like you. A few honest words can make him smile, miss you, and think about you more than you realize.

The best part is that when you send a message with confidence and warmth, he feels your energy through every word.

So go ahead, pick one of these messages, make it your own, and let him know he’s still on your mind. Sometimes, the smallest text can spark the biggest connection.